One disappointed valentine

Okay, so I know she must have received my card. The mail isn't that slow. Yet I still haven't heard a single word from her, so I know see two options:

1. She hasn't decoded my encrypted name on the card.
2. She has decoded it, but has so little interrest that she won't even say thanks.

I have faith that she is not as mean as the second option, so I still have my fingers crossed for the first one. I've started giving hints by describing the "Encryption of the week - ROT13" in my personal message on MSN, which she should see the next time she pulls up her contact list. Lets hope she gets the hint and deciphers my name. If that doesn't help, I'll have to start giving more hints, whatever those may be. I'm open to suggestions.